Category: Advice

People show up with coolers full of beer without asking. I do not want the responsibility for people overdoing it.

My son isn't speaking to us because he had to cancel his plans when his child got sick.

We don’t want her anywhere near food that others will be eating.

We want her to take a gap year. She won't even consider it.

Now I have a big secret and I need to decide who to tell.

Plus: How can I dissuade my friend from bringing food for her children when they come to my house?

Miss Manners: I was shocked -- the plate was nearly empty. Plus: Some people are surprised by my ban on jokey e-mails, but I'm serious.

Eric Thomas: It seems she won't be getting married, but she does want to buy a home.

Miss Manners: How do I politely establish my credentials? Plus: Am I supposed to lead my guest up the stairs or follow?

Having observed these interactions with clients, the boss is not impressed.